Our first appointment, before the wedding, got canceled because our son decided that it was time for his first (and probably not last) visit to the ER. 3 stitches later and back home I got a message from Ruben and Sophie that I shoudn't worry about it -we have 2 boys in the house and have a subscription in the ER- let's make a new appointment.
The tone was set! Not for ER visits but for a good understanding in the weeks ahead and a wedding where I felt welcomed in their beautiful family.